My Identity & Social Media

Before my 21 day social media cleanse (Jan/Feb 2017): Before the comments, likes, friend requests, follow-to-follower ratio, who was I? It has been so easy for me to be influenced by the opinions of others. Did I ever make the time to form my own identity? What was it like to just be…me? My identity…

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Refuse to Settle

As a wise woman once said, “STOP THE TRACK! LET ME STATE FACTS:” Many of us weren’t born with the dexterity made for suturing, or a mind diplomatic enough to change laws, or anything else that involves the typical idea of “pure talent.” This mere concept gives us the idea that we’re ordinary; and because…

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Daily Dose of Exploration

“Right now is all you have so live in the present.” “Enjoy today.” “Stop waiting until the weekend to be happy.” Yeah yeah yeah, talk about beating a dead horse… Yet, as per usual, I haven’t been practicing what I’ve been preaching. “What exactly are you talking about?” -you may ask Well well well, let…

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Who Runs the World?

I’m a feminist. *in a child’s voice* “Ooooooooh, Kiara said a bad word!” Yeah, that’s basically how society reacts in this day in age after 50+ years of “equal rights” amongst men and women. Saying that you’re a feminist nowadays is basically asking for hate among your peers (mind you, no consent given). More often…

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